Recovery from compulsive debting begins when we stop
incurring new, unsecured debt, one day at a time. (Unsecured debt is any
debt that is not backed up by some form of collateral, such as a house
or other asset.) We attain a daily reprieve from compulsive debting by
practicing the Twelve Steps and by using the following tools.
1. Meetings
We attend meetings at which we share our experience,
strength and hope with one another. Unless we give to newcomers what we
have received from D.A., we cannot keep it ourselves.
2. Record Maintenance
We maintain records of our daily income and expenses, of
our savings, and of the retirement of any portions of our outstanding
debts.
3. Sponsorship
We have found it essential to our recovery to have a
sponsor and to be a sponsor. A sponsor is a recovering debtor who guides
us through the Twelve Steps and shares his or her own experience,
strength, and recovery.
4. Pressure Relief Groups and Pressure Relief Meetings
After we have gained some familiarity with the D.A.
program, we organize Pressure Relief Groups consisting of ourselves and
two other recovering debtors who have not incurred unsecured debt for at
least 90 days and who usually have more experience in the program. The
group meets in a series of Pressure Relief Meetings to review our
financial situation. These meetings typically result in the formulation
of a spending plan and an action plan.
5. Spending Plan
The spending plan puts our needs first and gives us
clarity and balance in our spending. It includes categories for income,
spending, debt payment and savings (to help us build cash reserves,
however humble). The income plan helps us focus on increasing our
income. The debt payment category guides us in making realistic payment
arrangements without depriving ourselves. Savings can include prudent
reserve, retirement and special purchases.
6. Action Plan
With the help of our Pressure Relief Group, we develop a
list of specific actions for resolving our debts, improving our
financial situation, and achieving our goals without incurring unsecured
debt.
7. The Telephone and the Internet
We maintain frequent contact with other D.A. members by
using the telephone, e-mail, and other forms of communication. We make a
point of talking to other D.A. members before and after taking difficult
steps in our recovery.
8. D.A. and A.A. Literature
We study the literature of Debtors Anonymous and of
Alcoholics Anonymous to strengthen our understanding of compulsive
disease and of recovery from compulsive debting. In A.A. literature we
can identify with many of the situations described by substituting the
words "compulsive debt" for "alcohol."
9. Awareness
We maintain awareness of the danger of compulsive debt
by taking note of bank, loan company and credit card advertising and
their effects on us. We also remain aware of our personal finances in
order to avoid vagueness, which can lead to compulsive debting or
spending.
10. Business Meetings
We attend business meetings that are held monthly. Many
of us have long harbored feelings that "business" was not a part of our
lives but for others more qualified. Yet participation in running our
own program teaches us how our organization operates, and also helps us
to become responsible for our own recovery.
11. Service
We perform service at every level: personal,
meeting, Intergroup, and World Service. Service is vital to our
recovery. Only through service can we give to others what so generously
has been given to us.
12. Anonymity
We practice anonymity, which allows us freedom of
expression by assuring us that what we say at meetings or to other DA
members at any time will not be repeated.
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